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The Secret To A Happy Marriage
"Marriage is like watching the color of leaves in the fall; ever changing & more stunningly beautiful with each passing day.” —Fawn Weaver
It’s no secret that marriage isn’t easy, we grow so much in our lifetime that it can change the way we feel about our spouse. This is why it’s so important to be choose someone or be with someone that it not only your lover but best friend. I myself haven’t been married however, I grow up with loving parents who had a long time successful marriage. Since a little girl I remember all the little details my daddy would do for my mom.
Treating her like an absolute Queen in multiple ways, but what I loved the most besides all the surface level things was the way his eyes would light up when he would see he walking into any room and the sweetest smile. I would often ask what was their secret? What mad their relationship last over the years? I would get the same answer from both… they were each others best friends, they would had endless things to talk about and had countless laughs. I think laughing with your person is so important, you want to be able to have a sense of humor.

Love understands love; it needs no talk.
I know not everyone had or has the privilege of growing up with loving parents and I can’t say I understand because for someone to truly understand they have experience it. However, what I can understand is how this can translate in your personal relationships in the long run. Which is why it’s so important to heal these wounds and understand where they’re coming from, I have read multiple books on relationships, attachment styles, and endless self-development and much more. This is why I have a deep understanding of certain attachment styles and wounds. I have had bad experiences in relationships just like everyone else. No one is perfect babe, we all grow through events in life that can truly change us forever. This is why I’m so passionate about what I do today.
On my podcast, I have a relationship expert Daniele Kaythyn Hage, she has been married for 43 years. She’s a mother, wife, and pastor who has helped thousands of couples finding their way back to each other and making their relationship last. I wanted to bring someone on the podcast who has life experience in marriage and has gone through the struggles, these are the kind of people who can truly give you the best advance. When taking relationship advice it’s important to be mindful who is giving this advice, ask yourself if their beliefs are alignment with yours.
We also talked about the waiting season, for the ladies who are ready to meet and attract their husband, Daniele goes into detail on how to know when you’re ready and how to figure out if someone truly has pure intentions with you. Of course we talked about our beautiful feminine energy on how to make your man feel like a man. Having a more understand on how to communicate more clear and stay in our feminine energy when talking to the masculine.

Ladies, it’s truly all about how we speak and the words who choose, men do not think like us.. women are more emotional men are more logical. Understanding this will take practice but that’s okay, we’re all here to learn and grow. Below is the link to the podcast and Daniele contact information with links to her podcast and Instagram.
Sending love & light,
Annais